Look! At! This!


There were a couple days this week when I felt like I was running so fast I left a portion of my body elsewhere. Moments when overdrive seemed like a welcomed break from lightspeed. Yesterday, after spending most of the afternoon in a meeting, I returned to my computer to finish my To-Do List. If it were up to JD, he’d set my List to a stake and dance around the firepit while it burned to ashes. He hates my List and, well, I love it. Perhaps a little too much.

As I was working, JD came up beside me and said I needed to take a break. To get away from my mouse and instead use my finger to point at things—like the sun! the sky! the clouds!—as opposed to navigating a cursor on a large, glowing screen. Nah, I said. Couldn’t he see my List? And all the things on it that were SUPPOSED TO BE COMPLETED TODAY?

Then he said something that made me laugh so hard. You need to celebrate life. Just like that. His tone was like some Vote Or Die campaign, complete with a somber face and squinted eyes. And when asked just how, exactly, we’d celebrate life, he responded, With Thai food and the last bit of the Dodgers game, of course!

It was over yellow curry and pad thai when I realized JD might have been right. Okay, okay, he was right. Life is about walking away from what I think should be done, and doing what could be done. At lunch, we toasted with our glasses of water and I used my finger to point at things that mattered—like the curry! the tom yum kah! the Joe Torre!—instead of navigating a computer screen.

I’m off to shoot a fun wedding, but here’s a sneak peek of what’s in store next week…

Happy Saturday!

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  1. Wendy Mayo

    October 11th, 2008 at 4:45 pm

    Oh Jasmine! My husband does the same thing to (for) me. Isn’t it nice we have someone who cares for us enough to pry our pointy finger away from the mouse?!

  2. jess@studio3z

    October 11th, 2008 at 4:58 pm

    what is it with people in our profession being "work-a-holics?" Perhaps it is that we have such a strong passion for what we do, and it is hard to keep us from it. 🙂 I’m quite familiar with the feeling, and the ever present "to do" list. Good going JD!

  3. Amy T Schubert

    October 11th, 2008 at 5:28 pm

    he’s sweet. like my hubby. It’s nice, huh? That they love you so much that they MAKE you do what is best for you …

  4. Yuka photo art

    October 11th, 2008 at 5:39 pm

    This picture intrigues me!I love this little detail in her hair…

  5. Lissa

    October 11th, 2008 at 7:06 pm

    You have a good man there Jasmine! ;o)

  6. Amy in SC

    October 11th, 2008 at 7:36 pm

    The most ground-breaking thing that I took from the Free to Succeed Tour (boo, J* wasn’t at my stop…) was DJ’s statement that "The road to perfection only leads to procrastination." Glad you took a moment to enjoy the world and your hubby! I’m off to enjoy the fall weather and a street festival myself… 🙂

  7. Cathy Crawley

    October 11th, 2008 at 8:28 pm

    When JD said "you need to celebrate life" did he sound like James Earl Jones? That’s the voice that popped into my head anyway! LOL

  8. Ashley

    October 11th, 2008 at 8:33 pm

    Yellow Curry and Tom Yum Kai!! You can always take a break for Tom Yum Kai! Even better is the Thai Toast at Toi in LA. Mmmm. I’m hungry now!

  9. stephen

    October 11th, 2008 at 9:04 pm

    you have a wonderful partner in crime =) cheers to a beautiful saturday

  10. Karen

    October 11th, 2008 at 9:05 pm

    I was wondering what do you use to keep your dog fur under her eyes from getting brown?

  11. Bobbie Brown

    October 11th, 2008 at 9:09 pm

    Ohhhh! I love this picture! And way to go JD for making you take a break!

  12. nic

    October 11th, 2008 at 9:22 pm

    JD sounds like sanity personified…dead useful sometimes, ain’t he? my hubby’s the same way for me. i hate him while he’s forcing me to deviate from THE LIST, but love him once i’m inhaling that decadent curry steam.

  13. makeupbynora

    October 11th, 2008 at 11:16 pm

    Yea!!!!! Thank you for the sneak peek, can’t wait to see the rest. Nora

  14. Joan Solitario

    October 12th, 2008 at 1:53 am

    Thank you first of all for replying to my questions Jasmine! I know you’re SO busy, but you always make time to reply and I’m really thankful you do although your to do list is always full. I can’t wait to see your upcoming photos, but yes, enjoy the simple joys in life 😀

  15. Laura - FMN Design

    October 12th, 2008 at 2:23 am

    And I find getting lost in my list and checking things off IS celebrating life. But, thank goodness there are wonderful partners to remind us that there is a beautiful world around and to enjoy that too.

  16. Candice Brooke

    October 12th, 2008 at 3:37 am

    I love this! I can not wait to see it all!

  17. Brian Khang

    October 12th, 2008 at 6:22 am

    I agree! We all need to take a break from time to time. It’s so hard to walk away when you want to get everything done! Now I want some Thai food!

  18. kymberli q.

    October 12th, 2008 at 6:26 am

    AWESOME sneak peek!!

  19. deB perry

    October 12th, 2008 at 1:20 pm

    JD is so right…and I’m so glad you took him up on his suggestions. I did the same thing this weekend with my sister and mom…we went for a long 4.1/2 drive to pick (and point) at apples 😉

  20. Shyla Dalirifar

    October 12th, 2008 at 1:23 pm

    JD would like the song by Brett Dennen called Blessed. Tell him to go listen 😉


  21. Anne Nunn Photography

    October 12th, 2008 at 3:47 pm

    I totally understand! It is SO DIFFICULT to not do what we think "should" be done. I am always thinking "I just need to get this done…" I will try to relax a bit today. 🙂

  22. Megan Beth

    October 12th, 2008 at 5:26 pm

    I need to get myself a ‘JD’ to pull me away from my mouse

  23. jeramy

    October 13th, 2008 at 3:23 pm

    if you’re back in the bay area…’bangkok kitchen’ in concord is THE BEST thai place….EVER!

  24. sheila lory

    October 13th, 2008 at 3:25 pm

    Hi j*, love you blog, I always read it. I was hoping you could tell us what camera bag you use to hold ALL your gear and what bag you use to shoot with? This would help me out a lot. Thanks girl!

  25. vanessa H

    October 18th, 2008 at 5:51 am

    wow love the alley shoots!! great job girl